Bully Proofing

Have you ever been called a name? Has anyone used their words to hurt you either on accident or purpose? It happens doesn’t it. What if I could show you a way so you never have to live through a pain like that again? Would that be helpful? That is one of my missions in life—to help others love themselves. Now you may be saying, “Hold up! I don’t want an inflated ego. That’s bad.” Do you know that everything you believe has been taught to you by someone else? By someone that is just trying to protect you from pain and loss? They told you that an inflated ego was bad so that you wouldn’t become bigger then they are. People love to bring others down to their level. Or lift them up. Did the person telling you to “not be a bragger” want to lift you up or bring you down? I don’t know but what I do know is the world is full of people trying to keep someone else down so they don’t have to become more. They’re afraid that if you become the person God created you to be their excuses, as to why they haven’t, are gone. It is much easier to pull you down then to work my way up. If I can tell you to not like yourself and it stops your growth, I don ‘t have to grow. People don’t even realize that it is happening. They just know they were told it so they are telling you. I’m here to let you know there is another way. You have been given a marvelous mind that you can use to decide what is good for you. You decide what you believe and what you let go in one ear and out the other. You control your own self-esteem. “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” Eleanor Roosevelt If someone says something you feel or believe, you make your belief stronger. If they say something you don’t agree with, you think they are “up in the night” you don’t give it anymore thought. You just move on. So the next time someone tells you, “Be careful you might get a big head.” Tell them, “No chance of that. There are to many people in this world carrying pins to pop it. I’m just really proud of the person God is showing me I can become if I keep my eyes on Him. I know I’ll never make it. I just keep taking one step at a time with my eyes on His example. I live each day to it’s fullest and I respect others. I let them know what can happen when they like the skin they find themselves in.” When you remember you are valuable, what others say has no affect on you.

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